Tips on Your First Date

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Tips on Your First Date

Try to pick a fun place that both of you like. Don't be so nervous. Remember, she's already going on the date with you, so she likes you, so don't screw it up.

Alex
Tue, 09 Jun 2009 00:41:28 +0000

Before you go on a first date, be sure to review what you already know about your date. Do this for security reasons. You never really know who you are going out with. But reviewing the facts will also help you prepare you for making conversation during the date.

Lee
Tue, 09 Jun 2009 12:09:49 +0000

remember good hygiene clean cloths and most important overall be your self

m16_cartridges
Tue, 09 Jun 2009 14:37:37 +0000

Ensure that you are well dressed. Be very polite and diplomatic. Don't ever boast yourself.Keep yourself humble and generous.

Saravanan
Tue, 09 Jun 2009 16:22:43 +0000

Try to be honest about yourself and also about the things you say. Don't try to make up jokes. Make him/her comfortable. Be yourself.

Jayant
Tue, 09 Jun 2009 18:15:34 +0000

I found that is was most important to be myself. And it was also important to assure my date that he could be himself. It was also important to assure my date that he did not have to 'buy my affection' with expensive dinner and activities. I wanted to find out who he really was.

cangel
Tue, 09 Jun 2009 22:49:57 +0000

A couple of important tips on your first date are:

Be Yourself--no one wants to date a robot that laughs mindlessly at another person's jokes. Just be yourself and things will work out the way they're meant to.

Don't obssess over what the other person is thinking--It's impossible to know what is going on in someone else's mind, so just relax and have fun.

buttertooth
Wed, 10 Jun 2009 00:47:45 +0000

If it's a first date with someone you don't know very well, go to the movies and then for coffee. It will give you something to talk about afterwards.
If you already know this person do something a little out of the ordinary. Try to find something random that you both like to do like mini-golf or indoor rock climbing, etc.

kmac
Wed, 10 Jun 2009 01:18:06 +0000

Be sure to complement your date and losen up! dont be to nerrvous or your date will think you dont know what you are doing. make sure you look sharp and smell good

milos
Wed, 10 Jun 2009 04:45:57 +0000

If you're nervous just remember they probably are too. Just relax and try to have a good time. Always remember to bring breath mints and condoms just in case things get steamy...

dwegis
Wed, 10 Jun 2009 06:03:17 +0000

Look the person in the eye. Ask lots of questions. If you're a girl, don't order the biggest thing on the menu if you go out to eat but enjoy yourself! Men love women who don't eat like birds!

JacAttack86
Wed, 10 Jun 2009 07:00:05 +0000

Firstly you should be well dressed. You should be clean shaved. You should smell well. You should not feel hesitant and should be calm. Talk slowly and politely.

K K THAKUR
Wed, 10 Jun 2009 19:31:59 +0000

Be yourself, if you put on a big act and pretend to be someone you are not and it works out what good will it do? The person will like someone else and not you, sooner or later it will come out.

Susan
Wed, 10 Jun 2009 19:39:10 +0000

be yourself,but keep an eyeball on who you are with and observe. Looks for honesty, consideration, niceness and general around politeness, sense of humor and intelligence.
I cannot stress enough about red flags for honesty!

anonymous
Thu, 11 Jun 2009 00:33:11 +0000

Always keep your cool it makes it a little awkward if you are sweating bullets.Keep good eye contact and just be yourself.Ask her about herself girls love to talk about themselves and it gives you time to come up with something to talk about after.

Mark
Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:28:11 +0000

Keep in mind that the person you're on the date with is most likely as nervous as you are. Don't sweat the small things, crack a few jokes and don't be afraid to be silly. You should always show your true colors on the first date instead of someone you think your date wants you to be.

Sam
Thu, 11 Jun 2009 06:00:53 +0000

Just remember it's a date not marriage. Just have fun and remember that this is a learning experience (even if it doesn't work out.)Also, don't spend the date overanalyzing everything, it will just make an awkward situation worse.

Mickey
Thu, 11 Jun 2009 19:10:57 +0000

Make sure to have a few ideas of topics to talk about. Don't pressure her to kiss you or do anything else for that matter. Be a gentlemen and pay.

Alan
Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:22:11 +0000

On your first date, just be urself, naturally beautiful and remember its your first date...dont expect too much. Be nicely perfumed with soft fragrance and do care of bad breath.

jyoti
Fri, 12 Jun 2009 18:29:09 +0000

For your first date, pick a place or activity you will both enjoy. Be aware that something you like (for example, watching horror movies) may not be an activity that your date will have fun doing. It will also help to ask your date for his or her opinions on things that will be exciting for both of you.

Kate
Sat, 13 Jun 2009 05:06:59 +0000

don't rush the date. Try and avoid the akward luls that come and go. Make sure to be prompt.

donnie
Sat, 13 Jun 2009 16:27:20 +0000

Take her somewhere nice, but not too dressy. Find out what is good before hand, and order for her. Make sure you pick up the tab!

Matt
Sun, 14 Jun 2009 18:41:45 +0000

Remember to HAVE FUN! No one wants to be on a date with someone who is no fun. Also, TALK! Awkward silences are not good, so keep the conversation going. Don't try to be someone you aren't or the second date won't go so well.

Alan
Sun, 14 Jun 2009 22:31:40 +0000

No sex on the first date. Do not talk about marriage and kids on the first date. Have a very long conversation about any and everything.

Latonya
Mon, 15 Jun 2009 01:02:13 +0000

check a good restaurant with a nice ambiance and great foods, wear your best attire that can suit the place, good grooming and watch your manner.

yzha
Mon, 15 Jun 2009 02:09:00 +0000

Don't try to be over smart.Trough out the talk try to show what you really are.Wear a comfortable and sober dress.Don't show that you were over excited fot this date or you were not at all excited.Try to be as normal as possible.

kherasakshi
Mon, 15 Jun 2009 05:54:17 +0000

We can date girls only if we are smart.On your first dating do whatever she says.This will bring good opinion about you.Always talk about her and her beauty.

hasan
Tue, 16 Jun 2009 02:07:14 +0000

Remember to brush your teeth. Don't try to show off, this won't impress anyone, but rather make them think your cocky. If you are picking the date, don't show off your cash and make it fancy, just pick somewhere fun!
Most of all, be yourself.

carly
Tue, 16 Jun 2009 03:42:50 +0000

Make sure that you keep your body language open. Don't discuss your ex boyfriends and don't I repeat don't point out your faults. Make sure to tell your friends that you are out and where you intend on being. There are a lot of sick people out there.

Caryn
Tue, 16 Jun 2009 17:58:54 +0000

Be honest and frank. If you're impressed with how he or she looks then comment on it in a fun and positive way. Be original! There's always plenty of boring dates out there, make yourself stand out.

G Dogg
Tue, 16 Jun 2009 19:18:38 +0000

the most important thing is to have a good attitute. It may be a bad date but go with a good attitiude. First dates are hard - relax and have fun. don't talk about asecond date unless you really mean it.

Marsha Thomas
Wed, 17 Jun 2009 01:07:25 +0000

First dates are fun but, be sure to go somewhere that you can talk comfortably. Remember to talk about yourself enough but be sure to listen too. Really listen, relate to what your date is talking about and have a real conversation. Not just what worked on some other date.
There is nothing worse than a date that at the end you're figure out that you basically were on your "date script" and you made no connection at all.

dardvl
Wed, 17 Jun 2009 17:16:30 +0000

It was also important to assure my date that he did not have to 'buy my affection' with expensive dinner and activities. I wanted to find out who he really was.I found that is was most important to be myself. And it was also important to assure my date that he could be himself.

Ataul
Thu, 18 Jun 2009 11:29:58 +0000

On your first date, don't try to make extra efforts to impress your girl. Women have a strong intuition and they can judge if you are faking or trying to be someone you are not. Relax and be honest. Your date will appreciate it.

Pearl
Fri, 19 Jun 2009 20:01:57 +0000

Pearl
Fri, 19 Jun 2009 20:03:48 +0000

I think it's important to go on a first date with the intentions to get to know that other person. On the other hand, I think girls/guys put too much pressure on themselves they expect to know whether or not their date is "the one" at the end of the evening. At the end of the first date, all you need to know is whether or not you want to go on a second date. So have fun with it! :)

Phoebe
Sat, 20 Jun 2009 01:59:13 +0000

The best tip I can give to any guy on their first date is to be yourself and also to be a gentleman to the woman you are taking out. Courtesy goes a long way!

Josh Godbey
Sat, 20 Jun 2009 06:53:39 +0000

first of all you have to go somewhere you both like and feel good. second you have to keep the conversation open. and third try to kiss her if you see the things are going well.

ginue
Sun, 21 Jun 2009 21:15:31 +0000

on a first date or any date remember to:
1)shower first and dress in clean clothes. you don't have to look like you came out of a fashion magazine, you don't have to wear expensive clothes. just being neat shows you are respecting your date.

2)any first date is bound to be awkward. don't make your date feel like she has to jump thru hoops to get your approval. keep things light on the first date.

3)neat first dates might be a walk thru a zoo or a museum. if things are a little awkward, you can always talk about the exhibits.

sierrarose
Sun, 21 Jun 2009 21:38:41 +0000

Dress appropriately for the event you attend. Do not chew gum on the first date. Always bring some money with you even if it is only enough to catch a cab home in case your date leaves you stranded.

Joey
Mon, 22 Jun 2009 19:42:12 +0000

Do not be a cheap ass better words be flexible a t spending. Do not try too hard its annoying. Take a shower. Never say a girl / guy is hot in front of your date. Do not go out to eat and say " I pay half and you pay half". Be your self.

SPIKE
Tue, 23 Jun 2009 03:17:07 +0000

One of the best tips I have ever learned is to never boast and to be honest. If you want someone to be honest with you. You must return that respect.

Meghan
Tue, 23 Jun 2009 20:02:10 +0000

Be yourself and be polite. Always think of the other person before yourself and don't try to hard to impress them. Have some decent clothes on and a fresh breathe. Make sure your hair is well-groomed as well.

Luxx
Thu, 25 Jun 2009 05:18:04 +0000

Don't lie; you might have a great thing, but lose it in the end by exaggerating or fabricating information about your life. Besides, do you want someone to like you for you, or do you want them to start falling for someone that really isn't you. Also avoid bashing exes. You never know who your date might know, and shouldn't talk about past flames anyway.

goldiefish
Thu, 25 Jun 2009 16:17:54 +0000

First date can be very exciting. You might be nervous, but you want to show you are in control. Don't do anything embarrassing. Like burp, pick your nose, play with your hair, tap your fingers etc. All this things look like your not interested. If you are not interested, get through the night and don't go on another date with that person. But be polite about it.

anonymous
Fri, 26 Jun 2009 01:11:58 +0000

1.Brush your teeth
2.Cut your hair or go to nearest salon
3.Find romantic area
4.Use your favorite fragrance
5.Be confident!!!

cahyorini
Fri, 26 Jun 2009 07:03:06 +0000

You should make sure that your breath is fresh before your date ! Remember to be yourself completely throughout the whole date, so that your date can get to know who you really are. And don't forget to try to look your best. =)

kassyg
Sat, 27 Jun 2009 02:39:43 +0000

Lunch or a coffee is a good start. Wear clothes that make you feel good. Help the other person feel comfortable. Find something nice about your date and compliment him or her.

ashika
Mon, 29 Jun 2009 13:53:34 +0000

When it comes to your first date there are a few important things to remember.
(1) If you are nervous, chances are the other person is too, so cut them some slack.
(2) Find a non-threatening place to go like a familiar restaurant.
(3) Especially if you are a guy, make sure you get her permission before trying anything physical.

Allison
Wed, 01 Jul 2009 00:03:54 +0000

Tip for dating the first time would be make sure you like the person you are dating. If you are not sure you like them, get to know them before you go out somewhere and it becomes an akward situation. Always have a cell phone or change to make a call if things go wrong, but relax and have fun

Mommafrogs
Thu, 02 Jul 2009 10:32:57 +0000

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